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Marriage

11.11.06 (1:34 pm) [edit]

Admit your faults
Be tolerant, be polite, be accomodating
No one is perfect, forget each other's faults
The peculiar quality of a fussy man is to see the faults of others and to forget his own
Couples don't behave like mad for long. They dispel their anger before long and smile again
How to be happily married can never be taught, but only learnt
Marriage holds no guarantee. If you want a guarantee, better buy a washing machine
Marriage is not a destination. It is only a journey towards a happy family where love prevails all around
Share each other's joy, feel each other's pains
Count on each other's strength, forgive each other's weaknesses

posted by: appletree (reply)
post date: 11.11.06 (2:57 pm)

I think so. Whisper. If all couples can do these. I think they will be happy, perfect families & happy home. Thank you for sharing. Happy time & happy home there.

posted by: mimi (reply)
post date: 11.11.06 (4:58 pm)

I believe these are lessons learned by you. Thank you for sharing portions of your heart with all of us...
btw, you never answered me...are you married? are you...if not, do you want to be? : )

posted by: akelso (reply)
post date: 11.11.06 (5:06 pm)

"Marriage holds no guarantee."

Absolutely this is true. The only guarantee can be found in one's heart, where dwells a promise: to love no matter *what*!

Thanks for this post, Whisper.

- Andrea

posted by: saycheese (reply)
post date: 11.12.06 (12:26 am)

Nice post as always :D

*plus, don't forget to read 'men are from Mars and women are from Venus* :P

I'm not married yet, but one thing I've been trying hard for my relationship is that 'be more reasonable and less emotional' cos everytime when I'm sad or upset or mad, I (or should I say women) would let emotion be the boss of us. That could ruin everything >___<

Ah...I would like to know the answer of mimi's question too :P

posted by: saycheese (reply)
post date: 11.12.06 (12:28 am)

by the way, a washing machine with a guarantee? Hmmm sounds interesting. Do you know if I could swap anywhere? lol :P

Shhhhh.....our secret hehe

xxxCiaxxx

posted by: sudeshpoojari (reply)
post date: 11.12.06 (9:03 pm)

Easier said than done

well whisy ur married for long time i hope so put some light of practicality on your post of philosophy,

well im bachelor i dunno anything abt marriage and for that matter girtls, for me girls r just other uknown species with whom i m just unable to connect, i trust the saying men r frm mars and girls r frm venus on many counts, well specially whn it comes to my favourite sport Cricket,

So just help me, understand girl better, please i just dont wanna end up bachelor my whole life

posted by: 69whisper (reply)
post date: 11.13.06 (9:26 am)

Reply to: appletree
Thanx Peach, i think life would be ideal if that could have happened in all homes on the contrary life is quite different and facts quite hard :)

posted by: 69whisper (reply)
post date: 11.13.06 (9:36 am)

Reply to: mimi
thanx mimi, these are 'lessons learnt' by many amongst us. How a married life really should be? How to care for each other ? How to forget and forgive each other ? How to pass a smile to your spouse after an argument ? There are thousands of such things to do in a day and we can do it easily. But we don't.
Now the answer to your question about me. I have been married for last 12 years almost and have 3 lovely kidz. Leading a happy life with a loving and caring wife (i myself am not that caring though). Hope it answers all ? :)))

posted by: 69whisper (reply)
post date: 11.13.06 (9:42 am)

Reply to: akelso
true Andrea. Love, come what may. Its the only bond which can hold husband and wife close to each other's heart otherwise marriage becomes a mere 'social contract' to live together and find reasons to live together.

posted by: 69whisper (reply)
post date: 11.13.06 (9:52 am)

Reply to: saycheese
Cia, as a matter of fact most of us are 'emotional fools' and do get carried away by emotions. True that we need to be reasonable and bit more reasonable when it comes to marriage but it think our emotions do matter a lot in a relationship. Emotions sprinkle true colors of love, hate,happiness, sadness and madness in our lives and that is why we have emoticons too :) ;)
and i hope you got the reply in my reply to mimi's post. ;)

posted by: 69whisper (reply)
post date: 11.13.06 (9:57 am)

Reply to: saycheese
:) its been years since a bought one Cia. I think you need to buy one before you swap :)

posted by: 69whisper (reply)
post date: 11.13.06 (10:09 am)

Reply to: sudeshpoojari
SP i had recommended my posts 'What Women Want' series for you. I hope you read that? You can get closer to women and know girls only when you go near them. You got to get in to a swimming pool to learn how to swim. No matter how many 'Swimming for Dummies' books you read, you will not be able to swim.
Let me hear your full story right here on my blog and i think i have many kind hearted people who will all guide you about it, what to do and what not to. Let us help you and i mean it. You are our dear tblog fellow/friend and i assure you we all are ready to extend help.

posted by: 69whisper (reply)
post date: 11.13.06 (10:15 am)

Reply to: LadyG
everyone comes along in your good days, these are only the bad days which really make us realize who all are with us and it makes you proud when you find your spouse standing right beside you whereas everone else has left. thanx Lady :)

posted by: mimi (reply)
post date: 11.13.06 (11:47 am)

Reply to: 69whisper
awwww. i just knew it...what a lucky woman your wife is...and your kids, too, i think.
xoxox

posted by: sudeshpoojari (reply)
post date: 11.13.06 (7:44 pm)

I don't have any stories as such, the main problem is quit simple is what i m or put in other the way i m, my friends who r now godd friends said me that our first impression about you was it seems an attitude guy, who thinks XYZ and all that, but later they found that i m an introvert kinda guy speaks less, when it comes girls stammers more than speaking, well i made friendship with girls only after i got to my 2 year sr. college now that says a lot about me.

and from my point of view girls are a chatterbox, like they just want to dominate in a relationship, well i may be wrong but that is wht i m seeing happning with my frnds.

so wht say all here

posted by: mimi (reply)
post date: 11.14.06 (2:58 am)

Reply to: sudeshpoojari
good morning, sir : )
I believe that one day, the right woman will come your way and you will just "know" it. In the meantime, it sounds to me like you have not had a lot of experience socially, with women, on your own. Schoolgirls do tend to be "chatterboxes" because they, too, are very nervous around boys and are also developing their 'social skills'. I don't know anything about your culture, where you have been raised and who you look to for advice, but it sounds to me like you may have only known girls in school. but, with that being said, just understand your own heart and know yourself. In time, the perfect woman for you will present herself when you least expect it. Love is not something that you can force, like buying a car. There are not really any "car lots" available to just go pick out the right model : ) I think that you must find places of interest to you, where other people with your same likes and dislikes may be, and just practice being yourself...places that offer some social interaction, so you can make friends and perhaps, the woman of your dreams will be there. You won't know if you don't try. Love and marriage are the most wonderful of things, but only with the absolute best someone for you...if you force yourself to be with someone that isn't the right "someone" for you just because you feel you "need" to be with someone, it usually has a disastrous ending. You will find someone who "fits" you one day, but until then, just be happy with who you are...you never know where she may be and she will be watching...then you will have all the understanding that you need. Your heart will tell you, I promise. being an introvert is not a bad thing...just don't let it get the best of you if you do see someone you think is nice...if you see someone you think would suit you...that has qualities you admire, learn to come up out of your bashfullness a little and let her know. and perhaps, the reason you feel that women "dominate" the relationship is because you are shy and they seem to be so busy trying to keep the conversation going...just relax and step out of the confines of your shyness and let them do the talking. it is less work for you...you can just sit back and see if they might actually be saying something important like, hey, i like this man...he is shy and it's ok with me...i will do the talking for us both....i could go on and on, and if i am wrong, feel free to let me know...perhaps we could chat more in tmail for anything more personal you might want to talk about...
until then, i am just an ole mimi with a big heart and i would love to understand more about who you are and i adore playing "cupid"....hope it's ok with you.

posted by: akelso (reply)
post date: 11.14.06 (3:57 am)

Reply to: sudeshpoojari

Hello there sudeshpoojari, from another oldster within an aging marital "success".

I'm intrigued by your comment "i trust the saying men r frm mars and girls r frm venus on many counts, well specially whn it comes to my favourite sport Cricket," and am wondering about gender and Cricket. Help me out with this analogy! Are the ladies pretty much clueless where Cricket's concerned?

You also mentioned that "girls are a chatterbox, like they just want to dominate in a relationship" and boy can I relate to that, and I'm a girl!! Again, fascinated, I'm wondering if your assessment's based on a sample of introverts or extroverted women? (I'd be willing to wager the latter. Female extroverts are tough sledding for most introverts, both men and women!)

posted by: 69whisper (reply)
post date: 11.14.06 (9:56 am)

Reply to: sudeshpoojari
well SP you are lucky you got comments from 3 best ladies of tblog. Read them carefully and reply them, tmail them question them. I strongly hope we will have some good advices for you if not solutions.
SP let me explain one thing to you. Women are not different from men at all. Men and women have common feelings emotions and even expressions. They think alike and need each other to live a life. You just seem to be afraid of women thinking of them as another specie. No , they are part of us and we are part of them.

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